Autism and SociabilityJanuary 31, 2013 Some people believe that Autistics are antisocial. I am not antisocial, though some people might interpret my behavior as though I am. I like being around people at social events because I am curious, and I like to get to know new people and unwind after a long day. When I am not around people I miss the stimulation talking to my friends, family and certain people I do not know. When I was younger I would go into my room during a big party (even for my own birthday parties). I think I had a sensory overload, but it was a good sensory overload. It was like pigging out on all the candy and chocolate ice cream you can handle. I was so ‘stuffed’ from the stimulation that I had to take a break. I was taking it all in. Another thing is that I also run out of topics to talk about and my brain gets a little overheated from talking for a while and I need a rest. When I graduated from high school, I wanted to have a graduation party but my parents were worried that I wouldn’t be a good host and I would leave my own party. They were probably right, but I’m more mature now and I know I would do much better these days. Having many people around makes me feel good. Lee Passehl blogs for the Autism Society about his life with autism. Read his story! Topics:Living with Autism CommentsPlease login or register before you comment. Click here to login or register. |



Submitted by: agear Date: March 13, 2013
I feel exactly like this too. My doctors say I am not autistic but I sure do identify with a lot of the same problems and feelings. I thank you for sharing your story so more people understand what it's like to feel like you described.
Very helpful Lee for us all to learn from adults wit autism like you. Thank you. I wrote about the negative stereotypes of people with ASD in my book Challenging the Myths of Autism. Like your article does, the book reframes how some of the different behaviors can be interpreted in a more positive way.